Miko ( a farewell)

Kathy brought you home on a summer afternoon. You would be the third wheel in the barn , but when you got out of the trailer, I did not doubt that you could take care of yourself and Kathy. You only showed me a dark side once, but that was my fault for forgetting how you liked your space when you ate your grain. My scream of pain was enough to deter you from ever doing it a second time. You made it to clinics, shows, and the long trip to Nationals. I would ask you to take care of Kathy, and you always came through. I could holler your name across the pasture, and you would come running unless the grass and the temperature were perfect.
My relationship with you was one of trust, including the look that only another horse person would understand that combination of love and caregiving in those kind eyes. I learned you were a great listener when we walked for hours one long, cold winter evening when you had colicked. You never misbehaved when Scott the Ferrier was putting shoes on, and even with your deteriorating suspensory, you still tried to lift your leg and remained calm and trusting. Kathy has said that her animals pick her, and watching you two perform or hang out was always visually magical. The timing of us getting old together was perfect. We both had the same attitude about the ridiculous idea of being in a hurry for anything except eating. At one time, you were an unbelievable athlete. When you were groomed and ready to show, you were something to behold. I have enjoyed my retirement and have no doubt you have enjoyed yours. It’s been an honor to be part of your existence on our small farm. Not a morning will pass that I will not think of you cantering in from the pasture doing a few dressage changes just because. The connection has been completed, and time has come to let you run full out , throwing your head as if you are the stallion of your youth. Fly, Miko

11 responses to “Miko ( a farewell)”

  1. Beautiful tribute Fred.

  2. Fred & Kathy – our hearts break for you. We’re grateful Miko was part of your family, so much love and enjoyment you shared. Hugs to you both, much love to you.

  3. You’ve done it again, Fred. We’re all getting older. The goodbyes are just hard. May we all be so lucky to have an obit like this one written for us. Hugs to you and Kathy.

  4. Beautiful Fred. Thank you. Must’ve been a sad day when Miko died.

  5. That was a beautiful read, that brought me to tears. We are so sorry for your loss. Obviously, the three of you had a strong and magical relationship. Our animals are our children and forever in our hearts 💕. Relish in all the wonderful memories ❤️

  6. What a heartwarming well written story! Sorry about your loss Kathy and Fred.

  7. A lovely remembrance.

  8. What a beautiful tribute…amazing!

  9. The loss of a dear animal friend, one who knows and loves you with grace, is so visceral. My condolences to you and Kathy. This tribute is sure one of joy.

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      Mark & Marsha Gerlach

      Beautifully written Fred. We are sure you have so many great memories to hold dear to your hearts. Such a great tribute to a wonderful horse, Miko. Hugs and love to you both, our friends.

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    Mary Schmitt King

    So sorry for Miko’s passing. Even when it’s inevitable, it’s never easy. You both gave Miko a wonderful, loving life!

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